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Welcome trailblazer!
If you're here reading this, I already know you're a different kind of creator...
It is only in recent history that people have taken the reigns and set about intentionally creating relationships from the ground up.
People are opting into breaking generational cycles, healing their own trauma, and seeking out partnerships that aren’t just functional, but healthy and spiritually fulfilling.
Very few of us were raised in homes that modeled the tools, awarenesses, and emotional intelligence that we value in our relationships today.
This might make you feel like you are behind or “broken” or it may kick up feelings of grief or sadness. It sucks that we have to do this work because our parents or guardians couldn’t or wouldn’t.
But the good news is, you’re not alone.
Not only are there more people than ever prioritizing healthy relating, but the canon of information, tools, and support out here is absolutely incredible.
I love this work. I believe that there are so many ways to make it fun, rewarding, sacred, and sweet. Healing doesn’t always have to be hard and heavy. Sometimes it can be hilarious and even inspiring.
It’s my mission to guide people to greater relational intelligence so that they can not only transform the romantic relationships in their lives, but also attract more kindred spirits with whom they love being in community.
I’m so glad you’re here!
Community Circle
Women's Monthly Membership
Whether you are currently partnered or are in the process of attracting your partner, this membership will support you to create healthy, lasting, fulfilling relationships.
Each month you get access to monthly, virtual, group coaching calls. On these calls you can ask questions about love, relationships, and dating, and Theora will give you one-on-one coaching in the group environment.
This is exclusive content that will positively impact you ability to attract the kind of partner you want, your relationships (romantic, platonic, familial, and professional), your ability to create intimacy and polarity, your ability to communicate effectively, your ability to create boundaries, your sex life, your confidence, and your relationship with yourself.
Office Hours are held on the first Tuesday of every monthly at 2:00p Pacific.
“Theora’s monthly membership is a no-brainer. It is amazing to have access to such a thoughtful guide and coach who has put so much thought into the dynamics (both hidden and visible) that are affecting relationships. She is always kind and accepting and never shaming of where you are. At the same time, she gently and clearly gives you tools and guidance on the path to the next level of creating the relationship of your dreams (whether you are in it yet or not). This is rich with information about how to be a better partner, and enjoy the process of your relationship and/or dating. Like great coaches do, she lovingly points out blind spots and holds a higher vision of what you can create for yourself and your life.”
Love Coaching for Individuals
4 Month private program
Whether you want to call in your partner through intentional dating… OR you want to learn how to show up to your current partnership in new and empowered ways… this private coaching program is tailor-made to help you learn how to get your needs met, learn healthy communication tools, experience deeper love and safety, break personal and generational patterns, develop secure attachment, and ultimately create what you want with the person you love most.
If you are single, we will map out a “dating roadmap” that you truly enjoy showing up for because it is fun, inspiring, and romantic.
If you are in a relationship, we will outline the ways you can show up that invite your partner to communicate more gracefully and connect with you more deeply.
Relationship Coaching for couples
4 Month Private Program
This program is for couples who are growth-oriented and looking for support to improve communication, deepen intimacy, awaken passion, and strengthen their dynamic as a team.
You love each other and are lit up by the idea of having new tools and strategies to help you connect and enjoy your relationship more.
You both show up as best you can but life is full of unexpected challenges. Maybe things are good and you wonder if they could be even better. Maybe you’re in a rut and you’re looking for an injection of new energy. Maybe you are navigating a tough transition that is stretching you to your limits. Maybe there is a challenge you want to come together on but can’t quite seem to find your way… You’re here because welcoming in some outside support to lighten the load sounds empowering and connects you to a sense of possibility and expansion!
There is always another level of depth and growth available in partnership and you’re committed to discovering what the next layer looks like for you, your partner, and your relationship.
The relationship Playground
ALL GENDER MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP
Too often we look to well-meaning but misguided friends and family for advice, but let’s be real – you’ve heard it all before and it doesn’t really work!
This membership is designed to give people access to modern education and coaching so that they can create relationships that reflect their values, their vision for love, and their desire to relate intentionally, playfully, and healthily to the people in their lives.
Whether you are currently partnered, are in the process of attracting your partner, or are taking time to intentionally heal, this membership is for you.
Through educational workshops, Q&A coaching sessions, guest trainings, and an ample archive of growing resources, the Playground gives you access to a whole new library of tools, advice, and strategies so that you can create what you truly want in your most important relationships.
“Theora’s monthly membership is a no-brainer. It is amazing to have access to such a thoughtful guide and coach who has put so much thought into the dynamics (both hidden and visible) that are affecting relationships. She is always kind and accepting and never shaming of where you are. At the same time, she gently and clearly gives you tools and guidance on the path to the next level of creating the relationship of your dreams (whether you are in it yet or not). This is rich with information about how to be a better partner, and enjoy the process of your relationship and/or dating. Like great coaches do, she lovingly points out blind spots and holds a higher vision of what you can create for yourself and your life.”
FAQs
Relationship coaching for couples
4 MONTH PRIVATE PROGRAM
Enrollment opens March 2021 by Application Only
Imagine setting aside an entire weekend to pour ingenuity, curiosity, and energy into your partnership?
Each retreat is designed to enliven you and your partnership.
Imagine being not only on the same page with your partner but mutually excited about… adventure, sex, finances, travel, personal development, philanthropy, communication
And imagine getting on the same page at a powerful, intimate, adventure retreat… three times a year!
Power. Passion. Partnership. Is a year long program consisting of three immersive retreats designed to enliven you and your partnership.
You will experience epic adventure, erotic exploration, wealth expansion, spiritual deepening, and vision cocreation.
This program is designed for the growth oriented couple that loves being a team and is ready to see what their next level of greatness really looks like.
Book a Call to find out more.
FAQs
Can I experience working with you before I commit to the first 4 months?
Yes. The first exploratory call is complimentary and designed to give you a taste of my coaching style and teaching methodology. At the end of the initial, exploratory session, we’ll decide together if you’re ready to pursue coaching.
If we both feel there is a good fit, we will schedule your first joint session and decide on the best monthly times for your ongoing support.
This first exploratory session is designed to map out what’s wonderful as well as what needs work in your relationship. It’s also intended to confirm that we have good rapport and that you understand what working together will look like.
If we find you aren’t a fit for coaching with me at this time, I am happy to point you in the direction of a resource that I think will help you or refer you to another professional that may be a better match.
How much advance notice does it take to get an appointment?
Depending on my calendar, I am usually booked out at least 1 month. However, you can reach out to me directly and sometimes I can make adjustments to accommodate time-sensitive requests.
What session times are available?
Private client session times are available Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, between 10:00am and 4:00pm.
Where are sessions hosted?
Sessions are conducted virtually via Zoom. Calls are recorded and the audio version is made available to you in your private client folder for the duration of out work together.
Do you need to live in the Pacific Northwest?
No!
For the last 6 years I have worked with clients from all over the world – as close as Seattle and as far away as Dubai.
Do I do in-person sessions?
Sometimes, clients choose to fly or drive into Seattle for in-person “intensives” – or mini Relationship Retreats – which can last anywhere from 4 hours to 2 days in length. These are custom designed experiences and are not included in the standard 4-month coaching program.
If you are interested in learning more about a mini-Relationship Retreat, please let me know in the application form when you book your exploratory, complimentary session.
Will my health insurance cover my sessions with you?
Unfortunately, no. Most medical insurance only covers Licensed Mental Health Professionals and requires a diagnosis of a mental health disorder. For insurance to pay for treatment, it must be “medically necessary.” While relationship coaching services can dramatically improve your quality of life, they aren’t considered a medical necessity.
I’d love to work with you. What’s the first step?
You just did it! Step One is reading through this FAQ page. If you’ve read everything on this page and are ready for Step Two, fill out this application and book your exploratory session here.
The phone consultation usually takes up to 60 minutes. Please don’t book anything for at least 30 min after our session as we don’t want to feel rushed and often times clients appreciate having time to take additional notes about what they learned on the call.
You will want to take the call from a place where you have ample privacy so that you can share your situation and goals openly.
I have a question not answered here — what should I do?
Schedule a complimentary, exploratory session and let me know in the final entry box what’s on your mind.
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