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Herpes. Let’s talk about it.
The reality of herpes is that it isn’t that big of a deal. The most painful aspect of having herpes is the stigma that comes with it. I...
Read PostNSFW – Three Lessons I learned from Dan Savage: Lesson 3 of 3
I’m actually a pretty big fan of cancel culture because at its heart it’s about holding people accountable for their actions, and I get pretty hot and bothered...
Read PostNSFW – Three Lessons I learned from Dan Savage: Lesson 2 of 3
The next salient lesson I learned at Dan Savage’s book launch event, came nested under the assertion that gay men are better at sex (and have way more...
Read PostNSFW – Three Lessons I learned from Dan Savage: Lesson 1 of 3
On a recent Saturday afternoon I went to a book signing at Mississippi Studios here in Portland, OR. It was for Dan Savage’s new book, Savage Love A...
Read PostIf things have been hard lately, I think this story is for you…
“My privilege is showing.” She said, dismissing how harrowing and destabilized the last 4 years have been for her and her family. I was speaking with my lifelong...
Read PostWhat if “guilty pleasures” are essential to our well being?
The other morning I was walking Arlo. The air was crisp and the sunlight just barely kissed my cheeks with warmth. The leaves are well into their autumnal...
Read PostI’ve been gaining weight lately…
At first I could hear the regular rolodex of thoughts murmuring in the background. “I should start working out again.”“Why can’t I just get myself to do a...
Read PostThe Measure of a Robust Relationship is Determined During the Breakdown
Why break down in relationship is inevitable and how to alchemize it into the stepping stones that create deep, powerful connection between you and the ones you love…...
Read PostYou Are Also Built This Way… You’ll Become ‘Okay’ Again
I’m not afraid to get my heartbroken. A few years ago I was meditating after having been dumped by a guy I thought was falling in love with...
Read PostDivorce is NOT just a break-up.
Divorce is NOT just a break-up. If you or someone you know is experiencing this, please keep reading. It’s not just a break-up. It’s the loss of a...
Read PostWhy I Left a “Perfectly Good” Relationship
“Good enough” is never actually “good enough”. Not in relationship. My last partnership was a good one. A really really good one. We laughed every day. We had...
Read PostAre You Spiritually Bypassing Yourself?
Are You Spiritually Bypassing YOURSELF?! Have you ever heard the allegory of the Man and the Flood? It was a winter in which the rain hadn’t let up....
Read PostIf you’re a highly successful woman, you can’t date like everyone else.
When you are a busy woman, running a company, traveling regularly, overseeing your badass life like the CEO you are… “putting yourself out there” can feel like a...
Read PostWho Are You Committed to Being During COVID?
Social Distancing is the most fastidious and important precaution we can and MUST take right now in order to slow down the spread of the virus so that...
Read PostNo. You Should Not Have Sex On The First Date.
No. You shouldn’t have sex on the first date.Or the second.Or the third. So when should you have sex?I get asked this question pretty often… My opinion may...
Read PostWhat is it actually like to be loved by a truly great man?
You hear me preaching about epic love and epic partnerships all day long, and it looks great on paper, but you haven’t experienced it before so your brain...
Read PostHow Can You Miss a Relationship You Don’t Even Have?
While you have built an extraordinary life and you know you are a badass, every now and then, the absence of your person gets to you. It’s not...
Read PostWhat is Your Love Language?
Let’s talk love languages. If you don’t know you’re love language(s), then you’re in for a treat!If you already do, consider retesting to see if it’s still true....
Read Post3 Questions to Ask Before You Hire Your Next Dating Coach or Matchmaker
Today, I’m going to share the 3 questions you absolutely must ask any dating coach before you decide to work with them. First, you need to know that...
Read PostEpic Love Doesn’t Happen In A Vacuum
When you decide to become an entrepreneur who works from home, a LOT of your social interaction disappears. For me, I would go days without seeing other humans...
Read PostDoes He Really Exist?
If you’ve ever worried that the kind of man you really want to be with might not exist, breathe easy, I’ve got good news for you. They do. He...
Read PostYou’re the Whole Package but You’re Still Single. What Gives?
You’re the whole package but you’re still single. And you’re wondering why the heck that is. I’ll tell you and it will be a relief to hear! It’s...
Read PostHe Wasn’t the One. And This Is Why.
He wasn’t the One. This is how I know. A client of mine was recently hurting after finding out that her ex was in a new relationship. She...
Read PostIs Being Honest Setting You Up For Failure?
“Hiding behind honesty now is a sure fire way to cause real harm later.” In the age of transparency popularized by the personal development industry and social media,...
Read PostOver Digital Dating? Then Maybe It’s Time to Try This Approach Instead
From the archives:Originally published January 2018. As you’ve probably surmised from my previous writings, I think online dating is a pretty versatile and cool resource, if you know...
Read Post7 Tips for Women Who Want Online Dating to Be Way More Fun
This is part 3 of 3 of an Online Dating Miniseries.Originally published in July 2017. When I first started online dating after my last relationship, I was idealistic,...
Read Post10 Tips For Men Who Want to Date Women and Succeed in the Era of Digital Dating
This is part 2 of 3 of an Online Dating Miniseries.Originally published in July 2017. When I re-entered the dating world after a multi-year hiatus and was less...
Read PostHave You Been Wanting to Give Online Dating A Chance? How to Do It So That It Doesn’t Feel Like A Nightmare
This is part 1 of 3 of an Online Dating Miniseries.Originally published in July 2017. If you’ve read my work before, you’ve noticed that I have a pretty...
Read PostWhen Shit Hits The Fan: How to turn the most challenging moments of relationship into the most connective
Break Down in Relationship is an Integral Ingredient of Relational Growth/Evolution So… Let’s Talk About Emotional Gridlock!! Relational break downs are inevitable BUT you can alchemize them into...
Read PostHow You’re Scaring Off Good Men Without Even Knowing It (And How to Attract Them Instead)
Not too long ago a friend of mine was hunting for a wife. (Yes, men do this!) He was in his mid-thirties, was avidly growing his very successful...
Read PostHow ‘Being “Open” to Love’ Might Actually Be the Thing Holding You Back From Having It
“I’m open to meeting my soulmate. But if it’s not the right person… I have a great time on my own.” ALARM BELLS: You are NOT open to...
Read PostHave You Ever Thought “There Are No Good Men Out There”? (Here is One Simple Step to Unf*ck Your Love Life)
In December 2016, I was at Tony Robbins’ most-praised event, Date With Destiny, and I heard myself think, “There are no good men out there.” To which I...
Read PostYou Don’t Really Want a Boyfriend. Because If You Did, You’d Have One
I know this because if you just wanted a boyfriend, you’d still be with your ex, or you’d still be hanging out with that guy who you went...
Read PostWanting a Relationship Does NOT Make You Any Less Badass, There Is Nothing Wrong With You
“If I’m wanting a relationship than I must not be fully happy on my own. And if I’m not fully happy on my own. Then I am not...
Read PostWhy Successful, Badass Women Have A Hard Time Landing A Relationship They Love (and 7 Steps To Make It Easier)
Some of the very things that have made you successful in your career are what’s getting in the way of you having the love you want. The skills...
Read PostDo You Ever Feel Unlucky in Love?
Luck has nothing to do with it. The truth is, you don’t really know what you are doing and not doing when it comes to creating lasting, fulfilling,...
Read PostThree Big Mistakes That Are Keeping You Single (When You Don’t Want To Be)
What you are experiencing in your love life is a direct reflection of how you are showing up for it. Ouch.Did that hurt to hear? I’m not saying...
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