Today, I’m going to share the 3 questions you absolutely must ask any dating coach before you decide to work with them.
First, you need to know that the quality of a coach is as variable as the individual who does it.
In the coaching industry, anybody can call themselves a coach. It’s the wild west. There are a lot of pros and cons to such an elastic industry but what this means for you is that it is super important for you to do your due diligence and vet your coaches.
At Truly Chosen we take one of the most comprehensive approaches in the industry to helping you call in your soul love. Unlike other dating coaches, what we teach is not descended from the Pick-Up Industry. Our approach is all about you embracing your fantastic and getting in radical alignment with the caliber of man and relationship you want. From there, we tailor-make practical strategies that will move you towards your love story step-by-authentic-step.
Second, find out if you resonate with them on a SOUL level.
There are thousands of experts and professionals out there who have access to the information and strategies that you need in order to close the gap from successful-and-single to killing-it-in-coupledom. And many of them will work with you just for the money, even if there isn’t a soul connection.
When it comes to working in the realm of love and partnership, you absolutely must pick someone who speaks to you at a deep and undeniable level. Here at Truly Chosen we work exclusively with people we feel are soul clients. If a client doesn’t feel like a PERFECT match, we know that there is someone else out there for them who will be, and we are happy to help you find them. What this means is that when we invite you to work with us, you can trust that we are doing it because we KNOW that we can help you create what you want and that’s exactly what we are committed to doing.
Finally, how do they talk about love and relationship?
Often times you’ll see dating experts hyper-focused “getting a guy”, or on marriage and engagements as their primary success metrics but unfortunately simply hitting relational benchmarks doesn’t guarantee the quality of those relationships. How many people do you know who are married and miserable?
Of course we celebrate the bajeezus of of couplings, engagement, weddings, bought houses, babies, and all the other relational triumphs we love. But at Truly Chosen we consider those to be SYMPTOMATIC. Our primary focus is the quality, depth, and capacity of your partnership. Do you both feel ignited and alive? Do you feel capable of growing together over the long term journey of a lifetime? Do you both feel erotically fulfilled and sexually awakened with one another? Do you admire and adore each other? Are you both lit up by the idea of co-creating a relationship that feels like a spiritual playground and catalyst for expansion? Does your relationship feel like it has never ending layers of extraordinary to be discovered? He still gets to put a ring on it but we make sure that the ring is symbolic of what you live together each and every day.
If you don’t ask these questions, you risk low quality support, ill-fitting (and often disastrous) mentorship, or benchmark relationships that will collapse under the complexity of real life…
And of course I don’t want that for you.
Because you deserve the BEST.
To your legendary love,
If your vibing with our ethos, consider booking a complimentary Love Activation Call…
When you schedule your call with me, we’ll uncover what’s keeping you single and why your love life looks the way it does, and how you can transform your love journey by calling in your Soul King faster.
Why risk it taking 5 years (or never) when it could only take one?